Five signs you're dating a bad boy
By Faith Wambui | June 30th 2020
The last person any girl wants to end up in a relationship
with is a bad boy. They take you through a rollercoaster of euphoria and
heartbreak that will only end in tears. Unfortunately, it's hard to resist a
bad boy. His good looks and charm will have you swooning like a teenager. He'll
make you fall knee-deep in love and obsess over his wild ways. Most people
don't realize they're in a relationship with a bad boy until it's too late.
Here are some signs to know if you're dating a bad boy.
1. He's Flirty
He knows exactly what to say to women, and that's his
superpower. This kind of a man feels like he has the cheat code to romance.
He'll make you feel like the only girl in the world and give you his undivided
attention for the time being. For him, it's all about the hunt. Once he's
conquered his quest, he's on to the next one. Additionally, he can get away
with flirting with multiple women since he's quite charming. He always has a
crowd of women around him. He's a great storyteller and knows how to keep their
2. He's Secretive
He never shares anything about his personal life. It almost
feels like you're dating a CIA agent. He's quick to change the subject when you
ask about his family or friends. He keeps you in the dark about the people in
his life to avoid being exposed as a serial dater. However, every bad boy seems
to have a sad story about his childhood, which they don't shy away from
sharing. The only thing you know about him is his traumatic childhood
experiences. This is his amour and excuse for being emotionally
3. He's Selfish
Bad boys have an inflated ego and a false sense of
self-worth. They consider themselves above everyone hence contributing to their
narcissistic behaviour. It's always about them regardless of who is in the
wrong. They manage to play the victim in every situation and don't even
acknowledge your feelings or their mistakes. Somehow, you end up apologizing
for feeling the way that you do. They also never spend enough time with you.
You're always the one asking to spend time together, and whenever you make
plans, they cancel most of the time.
4. He's Cold
Despite their irresistible charm, bad boys tend to be
emotionally unavailable. When it comes to deep issues in a relationship such as
family, commitment, and insecurities, they're unsupportive and don't have the
emotional intelligence to deal with them. They prefer the fun stuff, and
conversations with them are mostly superficial. Since relationships are the
last thing on their mind, they don't invest their emotions in you. This could
make their partner feel confused and sad.
5. He's a Partyholic
A bad boy is not just a partyholic; he's the life of the party. He goes out every weekend and every other chance he gets. His idea of a date is a couple of drinks at the club. It also seems like the party doesn't start until he steps in the place. He knows everyone on the building from the bouncer to the waitresses. His charm allows him to work a crowd effortlessly. Parties are an opportunity for him to flirt with women and show off his prowess to his friends.
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