Campus relationships: Don't be a husband to a girlfriend
By Valerie Kinoti
| February 24th 2020
I know all
we talk about is don't be a wife to a boyfriend, and if I am not wrong, there
is a book with that title, and I bet most ladies have read. I mean, which lady
doesn't need something to quote when putting your point across.
It's in a
man's nature to provide and all, but you don't need to pressure and stress
about providing for your campus girl. You are both getting funding from your
parents, HELB loan, or hustle if you are among the few who learnt the act of hustling
Yes, a good percentage of us get into a
relationship with the hope and purpose of a future, but on the flip side, most
campus relationships are never that serious. Most people hook up for all the
Men! Take it as an advice from your girl here; If all she does is spend, spend
& keep on spending and she is not contributing anything, if you are the one
paying all the bills, that's your cue to run and run fast and don't look back
lest you end up a broke, depressed young man.
A lady who is down for you will think growth
for the two of you, sharing responsibilities and I am sure she will go like
"babe, we don't need to live in that fancy expensive apartment, we can't
be buying that at this stage in life" so on. If she can't afford it for
herself, don't be pressured to afford it for her, period!
brothers practice self-love before getting into a relationship and love is not
all about the material stuff you can give, or you have to suffer in the name of
love, buy her pizza, fries, etc. for lunch and have "kdf" and coffee
she's not an investment/asset that will add money to your account in some years
to come. Just love yourself and don't play the husband's role to a girlfriend.
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