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12 things that happen when you watch too much porn
By Brian Onyiego | Updated Aug 23, 2017 at 15:22 EAT
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SUMMARY
  • Watching Pornography has totally affected a lot of marriages and relationships in today's society.
  • Today, porn is more popular among teenagers and the youth than it was ten years ago. 

In this 21st century Internet is readily available at your doorsteps making it easier for pornography to find its way to families without constraints. Today, porn is more popular among teenagers and the youth than it was ten years ago. These has tremendously affected marriages, others being subdued to sex slavery and uncontrolled porn addictions.

Porn has effectively darkened marriages and relationships and it is because of the following:

You blame your spouse

Watching porn raises demands for greater orgasm during sex. If these demands are not met you subject your partner to criticism. This breaks the emotional connection involved in sex.

Decreases affection

Too much porn decreases attraction to your partner, you start seeing your partner as boring and monotonous. You feel unsatisfied. 

Makes you a bad lover

The scenes and acts in porn movies are based on feigned feelings and the experiences viewed in them are not real and not based on true affection.

Premature ejaculation

A recent study revealed that teens and youths who were exposed to porn on their earlier years suffer from erectile dysfunctions. Premature ejaculation is one of the side effects of pornography addiction.

Hampers libido

Your libido reduces constantly as your energy is driven by your own self satisfaction. Porn continuously reduces your sex drive and your libido declines evenly as you watch more watch porn.

You crave for extreme acts

Hardcore acts in porn movies will make you desire this hardcore that are not possible in real life.

You become selfish

The performers in porn videos characterize men self centered beings, you can unconsciously adapt this attitude when making love to your spouse.

Sex becomes a play

Porn influences sex in marriage such a way that you try to reach the standards set by porn videos and make it a performance rather than connection at an intimate level.

Reduced response

People who watch porn require more stimulation in order to get in the mood compared to those who do not.

Sex turns into masturbation

Porn creates a feeling that your partner is worthless creating an assumption that only you can quench your own thirst.

Porn degrades women

Porn views women as slaves and objects to satisfy men sexual wants. Erotic images are today used as substitutes for women and the real women rendered useless.

It will spoil your relationship

After criticizing your partner, raising your standards and being selfish be sure your relationship will hit rock bottom.


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