What a wife can do when the husband is struggling financially

By Dayan Masinde | Monday, May 4th 2020 at 14:12
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<!--[if !supportLists]-->1.      <!--[endif]-->Know that it is just a season.

<!--[if !supportLists]-->2.      <!--[endif]-->Remember that a man is not defined by how much money he has.

<!--[if !supportLists]-->3.      <!--[endif]-->Don't feel sorry for him. Don't overdo telling him everything will be OK.

<!--[if !supportLists]-->4.      <!--[endif]-->Don't baby him or address him like he is delicate.

<!--[if !supportLists]-->5.      <!--[endif]-->Give money to him so that he feels the pleasure of paying. Give him money to pay when you two go for shopping and such.

<!--[if !supportLists]-->6.      <!--[endif]-->Don't question his being head of the family or his masculinity just because he is financially down.

<!--[if !supportLists]-->7.      <!--[endif]-->Don't compare him with other men saying "Why can't you be like so and so?"

<!--[if !supportLists]-->8.      <!--[endif]-->Don't talk in a manner to suggest you are better than him or doing more than him.

<!--[if !supportLists]-->9.      <!--[endif]-->Compliment him more. Speak of his greatness. Remember the many things he does that are not money related.

<!--[if !supportLists]-->10.   <!--[endif]-->Gently and respectfully share with him opportunities available for work or business.

<!--[if !supportLists]-->11.   <!--[endif]-->Challenge him and encourage him to pursue his dream.

<!--[if !supportLists]-->12.   <!--[endif]-->Don't share his struggles with family or friends. He needs to feel safe to fight with you.

<!--[if !supportLists]-->13.   <!--[endif]-->Don't call him lazy.

<!--[if !supportLists]-->14.   <!--[endif]-->Expose him to content that speak to his spirit like buying him a book or watching inspiring movies.

<!--[if !supportLists]-->15.   <!--[endif]-->Appreciate the financial effort he gave when he was doing better financially.

<!--[if !supportLists]-->16.   <!--[endif]-->Pray together for financial breakthrough.

<!--[if !supportLists]-->17.   <!--[endif]-->Save and invest as a couple.

<!--[if !supportLists]-->18.   <!--[endif]-->Enjoy the season. Laugh, make memories.

<!--[if !supportLists]-->19.   <!--[endif]-->Do activities together. Get busy.

© Dayan Masinde and Akello Oliech

In my book, MANHOOD SERIES, I walk with men through the journey of understanding themselves and their woman.

In my other book, WOMANHOOD SERIES, I walk with women through the journey of self-discovery and how to relate with the man.

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To purchase the WOMANHOOD SERIES written by Dayan Masinde, MPESA Ksh. 200 to 0721590954, then text the word WOMAN and your email address to the same number and the book will be sent to your email address for you to download and read on your phone or computer.

 

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