Why highly intelligent women end up with ordinary men; It’s just never about books
All men, at least going by bar room talk, believe they are first rate lovers with the ability to turn the most frigid woman in the world into a convulsing, orgasmic mass. In chama meetings, such talk is of course dismissed, in the words of Raila Odinga, as mnyambo wa punda to much rolling of the eyes and wild giggles. Aren’t women, after all, the wearer of the shoe?
But that is not the story. Thing is while men brag about being great lovers, half the time, the most intelligent of them rarely know how to get the right girl. On the contrary, it is those of average intelligence who not only hit bull’s eye so easily but often walk away with the best women. Haven’t you noticed how highly intelligent women tend to shack up with average men or that rogue who is both gutter and way below average?
There are two types of Chopis. We have those who are too clever to say anything. You know the type who will be thinking about how to save the world while other fools are talking football?
And then we those who can’t shut up how they emerged top ten countrywide in KCSE in 1926, how they went to one of the best boys’ school in the land, how theirs was the only university worth the title, how they studied a top course and emerged top of the class, how they were headhunted by an international corporate while still in second year…
What a freaking bore! Don’t you get it?
We are trying to get laid here — save those stories for old school re-unions!
Unfortunately, since dude is used to being right and first and has always used his intelligence to open doors, the fool assumes this too will get him on top. You go for a date and it’s all about Vasco Da Gama, the Democrats, the NSE, mutants, BBI and macroeconomic indicators. Aaai!
What these chops don’t seem to understand that for women, there is more to a man than just niceness and intelligence. It’s not always about comfort. Its most times about excitement and passion. That’s how the gardener will have his way. The boda boda . The butcher man and that handy man who is a Jack of all trades (wink). It’s just never about books — or looks.
Ever met a couple, where, the woman is the deal but when you try holding a conversation with her man you realize the bugger is on a totally different level? Zero in both emotional and intelligent quotient such that you are left wondering, ‘’Sasa Purity aliona nini kwa hiki kimutu?’’
Women love aggressive men, those who ooze stamp authority, security and decisiveness. Men with who are not just forceful but have an aura of force. Men who can throw a jab and take one on the jaw, to protect their woman. We are talking street smart.
This will shock the brainies, but average or below average men tend to tick the boxes. Most of the time, they are humorous in an unrefined, even crude manner. For many women, this is a bigger turn on compared to the mole concept and the pending extinction of some rare butterfly in a jungle in Wuhan, China.
I know. It must be frustrating being an intelligent man who is always smarter than most of the people you meet, yet it is the “losers” with far less brain power who seem to be getting all the action from the intelligent women you would rather hang out with.
Brains are beautiful for the bedroom, but totally useless when the bedroom door is shut and the lights off.
Sorry, babes, when bras and triangular fabric are strwen all over the floor and hearts are thumping with the rhythm and urgeny of war drums, and the hearth is burning, it is only crude, dirty jokes and firm, skilled hands that the get the groove going. You got to wrestle her down to the floor, pin her down, kiss her like your life depends on it. And you better ride like hell, brother — with her express consent, of course.
But here is the deal. While you were getting an Ivy League education, and marinating your brains for that fast leap up the corporate ladder, the average boy was firming up his arms and legs on the football pitch, polishing his lyrics with the drama club and getting down and dirty. That’s why he knows how to take women to cloud nine and you don’t. Live with it!