By Simon
Her eyes put diamonds to shame and keep you glued to her like a magnet to steel. Her moist lips are always lined with lipstick of just the right shades, applied with high precision and in the right quantities. She knows the right things to wear; sometimes it is the skimpy outfits that show of her spotless legs or it’s the kinky tight fit and revealing spaghetti tops, while on special days, she puts on a short and colourful sundress that seems to have been made just for her.
When she speaks, her soft golden voice always lingers in your mind like the sweet morning bird songs. You can’t get her out of your mind; you want her so bad it hurts, but she wants nothing to do with you. Any attempts to talk to her or walk her from school or to the supermarket are always met with funny repulsing gestures. She makes strange sounds that imply that you should keep off if you know what is good for you. She is proving to be impossible. You are starting to look elsewhere for a more accommodating girl who will not make you feel like a skunk, but she is still the one. What do you do?
Remain focused
With girls, you have to be a little more patient to get the results you want. She may be just as interested in you as you are in her, but girls like to be sure before they give out their delicate and vulnerable hearts. To get the girl you want, you must have the focus of an eagle and the patience of a nun. Eagles identify their target from high up, lock it in then go for it. While in pursuit, even when other preys seem closer or easier to catch, they remain focused on the initial target. This is the focus you need to get the girl you want. Patience is critical to girls, as they want to know if you are in it for the short term or for the long haul.
Develop an interest in her interests
The most important thing in trying to date a girl is time. I am not talking about phone airtime, but an environment that puts you in a position where you can talk to her. When you develop an interest in her interests, she will start developing an interest in you. If she feels that you have things in common, she will want to hang around you as opposed to when you try to get her to like what you like. With time you will get her to be interested in the things you like.
Become an alpha dude
Alpha dudes are guys whose game is way above the normal dude’s game, which is mostly because they are always willing to go an extra mile. Learn some new things like cooking, even if it is preparing some mouth-watering snacks. Make her a delicious egg and bacon sandwich, wrap it very well, walk up to her and tell her you made it specifically for her.
On a sunny day, surprise her with a home-made ice-cold milkshake of her favourite flavour (probably no guy has ever done such things for her). If you are consistent, guess who she will always think about when she is hungry or thirsty? These constant thoughts of you slowly develop into intense feelings of love. When a girl is convinced that she feelings for you, she will naturally cede all control to you.
Avoid the empty hand
Dude, it will always make a difference if you surprise her with a nice gift once in a while. When you have something important to say, say it with a gift in hand — whatever you say will remain cemented in her heart for ages. This is why men buy engagement rings when they want to propose marriage to their women.
With a gift in hand, her judgment will always be compromised (in a positive way). On one hand, she will appreciate the gift and on the other, whenever she sees the gift — say for example it is a watch — your words will constantly echo in her mind, almost getting to the point of haunting her, which is invaluable in getting her closer to you. Guys who talk with empty hands barely make lasting impressions. Good things sound even better when accompanied by a pleasant gift.