Of shady men who beg for nude pictures from women

Millennial men are the reason today’s dating culture is so messed up. For some reason I will never understand, some of these men deem it perfectly reasonable to beg and pester random women for nude pictures.

Nowadays, you cannot chat with a guy for two minutes without him asking you to send him some ‘sexy pics’ even if he barely knows you. Then he has the nerve to get mad if you turn him down. You think you are hitting it off with a guy or just having a casual chat when suddenly you are bombarded with the ultimate turnoff when he sends the galling text ‘send me some pics’, the fact that he follows you on Instagram notwithstanding.

Now, don’t get me wrong. I am all for steamy sexts and X-rated virtual foreplay. However, just because I have fully embraced my sextuality and my Instagram page might prove appealing to purveyors of soft core pornography doesn’t mean I am willing to engage every Tom, Dick and Harry in a naughty banter.

Sending a boudoir shot as a memento to a man you have a committed relationship with is perfectly fine, even encouraged. However, the streets are crawling with creeps and scumbags who want to see the ‘goods’ even before they learn your last name.

I cannot tell you the number of times guys I do not know have tried to pressure me into sending them naked pictures! I don’t know where these men get off begging women for nudes after a ten second chat. And no, the see-no-evil monkey emoji you have included at the end does not mitigate the fact that you just straight up asked me for a picture of my breasts even though we have no prior mutual relationship.

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It is never the husband, the boyfriend or the fiancé who asks you for nudes. It is some creepy dude you met on Facebook who seemed decent at the beginning. It is annoying and offensive when you automatically assume a woman will send you naked pictures of herself when you have no kind of relationship whatsoever with her.

It’s disgusting and childish. With all the free porn going around on the internet, it boggles my mind why some men will keep badgering you for body shots. All they have to do is google! And on that note, sending us pictures of your junk does not make us want to reciprocate. It makes us want to block you and call the police. And again, gentlemen it’s not just annoying, those manners will take you to hell!

shameless Freaks

If a man is jumping the gun and asking you for nudes after two dates, he is not boyfriend material, and chances are he is getting plenty of nudes from other girls as well. And don’t delude yourself that you will just send him one shot and that will keep him satisfied and interested. If you send him one, he will want more and the more you send, the less likely he will be to commit to you because he is getting all the boyfriend privileges without having to commit.

It is unfortunate that women have started acquiescing to these perverted requests from shameless freaks to the point where it is considered a norm. Ladies, if he hasn’t taken you out on a real date, if he has not called you his girlfriend and if he has not committed himself to you, he has no right to demand for a naked picture of you.

First he should appreciate and respect you with your clothes on. Seeing your beautiful naked body should be a special treat after he has decided to make you his one and only. Keep it classy until he has earned the right to see your freaky side.