There is a reason why your ex is not your current boyfriend or girlfriend. You should therefore ask yourself whether you are ready to run back to him or her. Well, couples fall apart due to reasons best known to them.
Here are some questions you should ask yourself:
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Have you had time to really think things through?
This is the best time to enjoy ‘me time’. The best company anyone can have is ‘me, myself and I’. Take time to enjoy your own company. You can do this through meditation or spending time alone doing something you like, such as dancing or swimming.
You really need to think things through with a clear and sober mind. This is not the time to listen to others. This is not to mean that you should not listen to wise counsel.
Have you noticed any change?
The change can be two-way in the sense that both you and your ex may have changed for the better or for the worse. One thing for sure is that there is no looking back if the change is negative. There is no point of going back to someone who will not bring out the best in you and worst still in themselves.
On the other hand, if he or she has changed for the better then you can actually think about being an item.
Has your ex reached out to you?
Ladies should leave this to the men. I mean at the end the day, he is the one who is supposed to win you back. Women should not go running around looking for men. If ‘your man’ really wants you he will do everything in his power to have you.
Are you ready to work things out?
This is one very important question potential couples should ponder upon. You should get into the relationship only if you are ready to work and talk things out. Talk can be cheap but your actions can speak a whole lot. For a relationship to be successful, both parties should be ready to dive into the ‘deep-end’.
After asking yourself the four questions you should go ahead and do what you think is best for you. At the end of the day, you are the one who gets to live your life. If things do not work out as you hope or wish, do not blame others.
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