I have a boyfriend of four years and we hope to get married someday. We engage in sex occasionally. My problem is that I don’t feel satisfied sexually because his game is down. I want good mind-boggling sex which he is not giving. I have been thinking about what I can do to improve his performance in bed so that he can make me happy. Please give me tips on how we can spruce our sex life.
Rose, you sound like a woman who knows what she wants in bed. Well if that’s the case, you only need to communicate with your man what you want and how you want it done. Sex is a game of the mind and it takes two to tango. Don’t compare your man’s sexual prowess with other men. Men are never equal. Remember not to hurt his ego in your quest for satisfaction.
Roselyne, your priorities are upside down and you are already putting the cart before the horse. Sex is not a guarantee of happiness in marriage but is one of the aspects that spices up a marriage. Give your man a chance to be himself.
If you find your food not well cooked, you ought to complain to the cook. Your man must have not noticed your sexual dissatisfaction. Talk to him about it and if it’s not as a result of his health or medical condition, for sure he’ll up his game. You too need to help him work this out. Appreciate his efforts and don’t complain all the time.
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