But if he is hardly ever interested, there may be a physical cause [Courtesy]

Also remember that his desire is not under his conscious control anyway, just like yours, so he cannot rise to the occasion unless the mood's right! And men are never as enthusiastic as they are portrayed in the movies, so he won't always feel desire just because you approach him. Get used to his arousal pattern, and take advantage of it. Early mornings, for example.

And think seduction! In your early days together, there was always a hint of intimacy in the air, but maybe nowadays neither of you feels the urge to sweet-talk anymore.

So try looking at each other when you are chatting together and compliment and touch each other a lot, because all of those trigger desire. And you would be surprised how often teasing can get you both into the mood.

Because anticipation is an essential build-up to passion, and so making love should always begin long before you head into the bedroom.

All the best,

Chris