1.      Knowthat it is just a season.

<p><b>Compliment him more. Speak of his greatness. Remember the many things he does that are not money related.</b></p><p><b>Don't question his being head of the family or his masculinity just because he is financially down.</b></p>

2.      Rememberthat a man is not defined by how much money he has.

3.      Don'tfeel sorry for him. Don't overdo telling him everything will be OK.

4.      Don'tbaby him or address him like he is delicate.

5.      Givemoney to him so that he feels the pleasure of paying. Give him money to paywhen you two go for shopping and such.

6.      Don'tquestion his being head of the family or his masculinity just because he isfinancially down.

7.      Don'tcompare him with other men saying "Why can't you be like so and so?"

8.      Don'ttalk in a manner to suggest you are better than him or doing more than him.

9.      Complimenthim more. Speak of his greatness. Remember the many things he does that are notmoney related.

10.   Gentlyand respectfully share with him opportunities available for work or business.

11.   Challengehim and encourage him to pursue his dream.

12.   Don'tshare his struggles with family or friends. He needs to feel safe to fight withyou.

13.   Don'tcall him lazy.

14.   Exposehim to content that speak to his spirit like buying him a book or watchinginspiring movies.

15.   Appreciatethe financial effort he gave when he was doing better financially.

16.   Praytogether for financial breakthrough.

17.   Saveand invest as a couple.

18.   Enjoythe season. Laugh, make memories.

19.   Doactivities together. Get busy.

© Dayan Masinde and Akello Oliech

In my book, MANHOOD SERIES, I walk with men through thejourney of understanding themselves and their woman.

In my other book, WOMANHOOD SERIES, I walk with womenthrough the journey of self-discovery and how to relate with the man.

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