1. The sleep and let's talk tomorrow technique

This is when a couple choose to sleep and talk in the morning when they wakeup. Sometimes sleep a healer.

<p><b>Sometimes even when there is a dispute there is still sexual tension, the couple makes love then get to talk about the issue after getting a high.</b></p><p><b>Some people find it difficult to talk about a serious issue face to face, they prefer chatting over phone messages where they can measure their words.</b></p>

2. The hug and talk technique
This is when you notice you have hurt your spouse and you hug him/her as youapologize and address the issue. This will make your spouse find it difficultto resist your warmth.

3. The surprise letter technique
This is when you write a letter to express assurance of love and acknowledgethe issue and apologize. This can put a smile on your spouse's face.

4. The "let's talk" technique
This is when you tell your spouse to make time to talk. It allows you both toprepare and focus on the conversation.

5. The after love making technique
Sometimes even when there is a dispute there is still sexual tension, thecouple makes love then get to talk about the issue after getting a high. Lovemaking can be an ice breaker.

6. The chat technique
Some people find it difficult to talk about a serious issue face to face, theyprefer chatting over phone messages where they can measure their words andthink before they respond.

7. The child messenger technique
This is when you send your child a message to your spouse to tell him/her ofyour love.

8. The datetechnique
This is when you take your spouse out on a date to remind him/her and you tworeconcile over a good time.

9. The gift technique
This is when you give your spouse a gift offering of something special orflowers to appease your spouse as a demonstration that you are serious aboutbuilding the love.

10. The walk away and calm down technique
This is when you two have a disagreement and you know if you speak at thatmoment, you will say something you will regret, so you walk away to calm downand talk things out.

It doesn't matter which technique you use as long as youaddress the issues.

© Dayan Masinde

In my book, MANHOOD SERIES, I walk with men through thejourney of understanding themselves and their woman.

In my other book, WOMANHOOD SERIES, I walk with womenthrough the journey of self-discovery and how to relate with the man.

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