Lillian Muli has warned the unmarried on partners who are good wedding material but terrible for marriage. Borrowing advice from relationship coach Susan Nguttu, she urged single people to first get to know themselves before getting into marriage. She urged young people to be careful when choosing whom to wed since a wedding is only a day's event while marriage is a lifetime commitment.
“I came across this on and I thought it was very powerful. Dear Singles, some people are good wedding material but are terrible marriage material. Some people are nice until they have finished with you. Some are good caring and available as long as they can use you for themselves. Some are ready for a glamourous wedding but unprepared for a blissful marriage. Some men are biologically ready to be a father but not mentally or spiritually ready to be a husband. Yet some ladies are biologically ready to be a mother but not mentally or spiritually ready to be a wife. They work harder on the wedding plans than they do on the marriage plans.”
“A wedding is for one day. Marriage is for a lifetime. Never you forget this. If you promote a lady who is not ready to be a wife then you have to struggle to make her who she is not. If you promote a man who is not ready to be a husband then you have to struggle to make him who he is not,” Lillian shared.
Responding to a fan’s revelation a while back, Lillian disclosed that her to had cohabited with a baby daddy because of her child.
“This one is very complicated because a child is involved. I have done it, too, and it is not easy,” she said.
Lillian also admitted to having wasted six years loving the wrong person. “Lol. You and me both, honey! Mine, six wasted years. You will love again,” she said.
A week ago, Lillian spoke out about a female stalker she claims has been following her for a while. Lilian said the stalker is out to malign her name and character.