circle comprises of men than women, so a lot of topical agendas are mostly men
<p><b>To my surprise, in this era, women should not feel obliged to follow malicious orders from men even with no commitment at all in terms of passionate relationships or any other relationships.</b></p><p><b>I am not starting a revolution, but I am still upset with the fact that there are still young, naïve women out there of all ages who are still victims of circumstances.</b></p>
things that come up that upset me in conversations. I do not let it sit with
me; I actively attack, and the more I attack, the more transparent their brains
get to me. It is quite evident that there are quite a number of men out there
who are still scared and agitated by the fact that women make a lot of decisions
concerning their very own lives in various matters, especially those that are
meant to empower them.
surprise, in this era, women should not feel obliged to follow malicious orders
from men even with no commitment at all in terms of passionate relationships or
any other relationships.
I am not
starting a revolution, but I am still upset with the fact that there are still
young, naïve women out there of all ages who are still victims of
cases, young girls in both primary and high school who have boyfriends play
emotional and psychological games, which lure them into giving up their very
own voices and personal will.
extreme, there are young women who call their husbands “Mzee wangu,” yet there
are age mates. How absurd is that?
One of my
“friends” was talking about how unfair it is that women have a say on when they
should get pregnant and how bad it was that birth control pills are easily
accessible to women.
surprise, he was backed up by his fellows, saying that men are the ones who
should be allowed a say on when to get babies. Women should just wait to carry
the baby to term, and that is all a woman is good for. That is when it got me
Who is to
be responsible for birth control? Is it the man or the woman?
goes on and on, but at the end of it, women end up taking birth control
seriously since they are on a catastrophic end. What bothers me is not who
takes birth control but who has more control over the birth control.
barely care for what women want but what they get, Like who gets to call the
shots in the relationship.
if a tender aged woman gets pregnant, unexpectedly, the young man will
literally claim his noninvolvement in the matter, yet the damage has already
been done. Why? Mostly because they lack control in that situation. So women
end up being the unfortunate ones.
cases where married men flee the home after women give birth to an additional
number of children than expected, for example, triplets or children with
special needs, this is a topic for another day. You can still see the control
aspect of the situation.
still being controlled, yet they can decide their future and how society treats
this is the voice of a man who keeps telling you, “I love you, and I miss you.”
On a daily basis and you are fooled by the fact that being loved and missed is
all that matters in the world.
I feel like
once we are taught how to wear a sanitary towel, we are women enough. Trust me,
no woman has adequate knowledge to walk a life of freedom by themselves. We
still need our sisters, friends, mothers, aunties, grandmothers, men who
support women empowerment, and activists. We need each other. That voice that
speaks with clarity, even in condemnation. That voice of a true woman. Who is a
woman? A generation of possibilities that alone is powerful among many.
We have to
know what we are, embrace these values, and teach the generation to come. Pick
up your sister, tell her about her worthiness, and see the world change. Let us
change the narrative. Especially when the world is staying safe, keep a sister