1. Declare that you two are a couple inpublic. This shows you take pride in your marriage.

2. Introduce your spouse as yourhusband/wife. This makes your spouse secure.

<ul><li><b>Checking up on your spouse when in public shows you are mindful of each other</b></li><li><b>Turning down outsiders who try to flirt with you online or offline shows you have respect for your marriage</b></li></ul>

3. Do not talk down at your spouse or shoutat him/her in public. Cover your spouse.

4. Do activities outside together, be seentogether often. It strengthens your love.

5. Introduce your spouse to your family andfriends. It fosters security and accountability.

6. Demand that your friends and familyrespect your spouse. How your spouse is treated starts with you.

7. Express your love on social media, don'thide your love. It kills suspicion and unnecessary drama.

8. Flirt or warmly joke with your spouse in public. It heightens your closeness in private.

9. Check on your spouse when in public. Itshows you are mindful of each other.

10. Enjoy opportunities where you sittogether in public. It strengthens your bond.

11. Turn down outsiders who try to flirtwith you online or offline. When you respect your marriage, others will.

12. Show up at events of your spouse thatmean a lot to him/her. It shows you are a team.

13. Randomly interject your spouse's namein conversations. It shows you two are intertwined.

14. Let it be known you need to consultwith your spouse when an offer, invite or request is made. It shows you two areone.

15. Praise your spouse in public. Elevateyour spouse above others.

16. Inform your spouse before you leave aplace you two are at. Do not leave unannounced and when you leave, leave in aloving way (with a kiss perhaps).

17. Hold your spouse's hand or waist inpublic. Be comfortable together.

18. Serve your spouse before servinganother person.

© Dayan Masinde and Akello Oliech



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