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Five reasons why you are still a single lady

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Everyone around you is happily paired off but you are still single.

The clock is ticking; months and years pass and you lack that completeness of life. You may be living in a comfortable house, good salary and enjoying life but without a spouse, there is usually space gap.

Every time you strive to attract the opposite sex, things go the other way. You keep wondering is it my way of being, behaviour or it just wasn’t meant for me? Maybe your actions and behaviours have the opposite effect on whoever is or may be attracted to you.

So what are the real reasons you’re still single? 

Playing hard to get

Hey! You’re always on your girlfriend's company, when you are supposed to be walking solo. He calls for dinner and you go with a crowd of people. Clearly, you don’t have time for him. Playing hard to get right? You may think that playing hard to get can help you attract a guy, but you're making a mistake. In this century, playing such games is highly immature and can give off the impression that you're not yet ready, willing, or interested in getting into a relationship. Also, you are unavailable. When you stay indoors who will see you? Go out, parties, ceremonies and visit places that are likely to ingress you into a guy.

You still talk of your ex

Didn’t you just dump him for good? Why do you still talk of him, negatively I know but um...h… Bad-mouthing your ex-shows any potential love interest that you still have feelings for him. Constantly criticizing your ex-doesn’t show how much you are over him and it creates doubts. Talking about your ex is just unattractive.

The “slay-queens”

It’s exhausting to keep up with drama-queens, the latest say in town - the ‘slay-queens’. These women are fond of outrageous acts that are currently hitting the social media networks. Men are not interested in knowing your tricks to become more attractive, famous or whatsoever. If you plan to get their attention by becoming the drama-queen, you will definitely get it, but in a negative way. Men prefer simple women and hate complications.

Gossiping a lot

Women love to gossip. They notice the smallest thing on someone and they go around talking about it. Sharing the latest rumours and scandals with your guy might seem fun at one point, it can be a major turn off. Men are drawn to women who value themselves and don't put others down as a way to lift themselves up.

Too much makeup

Men love women who are naturally beautiful. Using too much makeup isn’t sexy at all. Men don’t want to go for a romantic smooch and come out looking like Halloween makeup, lipstick around the lips and foundation on the shirt. Makeup hides imperfections. So apply appropriately and don’t overdo it or else you will just be somebody’s passerby.

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