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Five reasons why she won’t sleep with you anymore – pay close attention

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The first year after marriage is usually the best year in terms of intimacy. According to various researchers and publications, most married couples usually engage in intense sex immensely during the first and the second year of marriage. After that, the thrill just dies off.

Trust me, there is no man on earth who has never struggled with this and it is usually due to several reasons.

Couples who just got married have a lot of time on their hands and sex is never an afterthought. Actually, after marriage, sex is the thought, because you have all the time in the world to freely be with each other, away from your friends, parents and nosy colleagues.

But why does the thrill go away?

You become an afterthought

Once you get back to your jobs and become overwhelmed with the pressures at work, you think of nothing else but work. The thought of your husband/wife comes in short bursts, usually when you have lunch breaks or free periods.

Divided attention

As I said earlier, immediately after marriage, you can have sex as much as you want but once responsibilities get in the way, e.g. a baby or a new job, she won’t have enough free time to cuddle with you and the thrill of having sex with you will slowly fade, engulfed by the many responsibilities on her shoulders.

Lesser attention every day

The emergence of smartphones and social media applications has been instrumental in the destruction of marriages. Couples nowadays spend too much time on their phones than with their spouses. A lady who has too many friends on social media enjoys chatting online than speaking to people physically and this translates into relationships, where the attention she used to give you diminishes.

You might be cheating on her

Agree with me or not, ladies have a superpower. It is possible for a lady to know if you are cheating on her with another woman, just by the way you speak to her or carry yourself around her. Is she realizes that you have been sleeping with another woman, it is the end of the road for you.

When you put her second to everything

Women thrive on attention. A happy woman is usually one who gets the attention she needs form the person she wants. If you take her shopping, lunch, expensive dinners and vacations, she will open up to you easily. Putting yourself first in a relationship doesn’t really go down well with ladies and she might leave you in search of a person who puts her first.

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