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Women who stay in abusive relationships for petty reasons

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Most women hardly get sexually satisfied by their men. Hence when they get a man who is capable of satisfying them, they hold on to him no matter how bad they are treated.

 After eavesdropping into ‘girls only’ chats, it’s almost evident that men do not give women sexual satisfaction.  They have their own reasons and ‘units of measures’.

A sizable percentage of women have had bad sex encounter at least once in their lives. With guys who perform very poorly at foreplay, jumps on you, humps for a few minutes before rolling over and snoring… even before you wrap up your mind around what’s happening. It’s a wrap for them and as a woman you are left unsatisfied. 

For the longest time, the primitive notion was that women are not meant to enjoy sex. For them sex was a practice to multiply and fill the earth.

However, women should enjoy sex just like men. That is why it becomes hard for women to let go of a man who finds their elusive ‘G-spot’. They are a rare kind. However, it becomes complicated and confusing for women in relationships with extremely good in bed men who are physically and emotionally abusive.

I once had a friend who was stuck in such a ‘situationship’.  The boyfriend was so abusive and insecure. He would subject her to abject torture for the silliest mistakes. Say for example, if he phoned her and she failed to pick up the phone, he would send her extremely abusive messages regardless of how valid her excuse of not picking up the phone was. One vivid memory I have is when we once went out with my friend on a Friday. She did not alert the boyfriend since he was treating her to a silent treatment because apparently, she had refused to text him a goodnight the previous night (Rolls my eyes). So she told me she needed to unwind and me being the ‘wing woman’ that I was, I suggested we go to a club.

I think the boyfriend later came around and started looking for his girlfriend at around 10 pm. He started calling her asking about her whereabouts. I told my friend not to pick the calls but she would hear non-of it. She argued that she owned him an explanation at least. Huh!! Anyway, she informed him that she was clubbing. Lo and behold!!! She was told to go back to the house (they used to live in the same apartment) with immediate effect to which she obliged.

I saw her off and told her to alert me when she gets home as I went back have ‘a good time’.  About 45 minutes later, she called. Not to inform me that she had arrived safely. No, she was crying and wailing… I tried to calm her down and get her to tell me what was happening, she couldn’t she was hysterical. I decided to call a taxi and go to her place. I found her outside her boyfriend’s door still crying and cursing. It was some minutes to midnight. Loud music was coming from the house but you could also hear some pleasure inflicted moans and groans. Yes!!! The boyfriend was screwing another girl.

 I dragged my friend from there to her own room amid protests. She swore how she was going to dump his sorry ass for doing that. Anyway, after a few minutes, we saw a chic leave the boyfriend’s room. My friend’s room was adjacent to her boyfriend’s. By now she had cooled down and she felt that she should go and give him a piece of her mind.. I love drama so I let her go, I would watch from her room’s window.

One knock on the door, the boyfriend peeped, saw her went back in, came back with a bucket full of dirty soapy water, opened the door and poured all the water on her. OMG!! It was a sorry see. My friend started fleeing but because of the soapy water she slid and fell. The boyfriend came after her raining blows on her claiming he was just having a good time like she was having a good time at the club hence owed her no excuse. This caused a lot of commotion and neighbours came to her rescue. She ended up with a split lip. I did first aid to her as she cursed how the boyfriend was a loser. For a whole week they did not see eye to eye. But after that one week, they were back together.

I felt concerned and approached my friend asking her why she would go back to the loser. She looked me straight to the eyes and told me that the guy takes her to cloud 9(whatever that means) and makes her squirt like crazy. She told me she wouldn’t do without his sex came since all the other men she had been with sucked big time. I rested my case and let her be. I also started avoiding her lest I got temped to taste her boyfriend’s ‘holy dick’.

Anyway, three years later, they are still together and she still gets the good dick and some beating from time to time. And mark you, she is career woman doing well for herself. Call it dickmatization.

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