I have been married to my wife for two years. The problem is that she does not want to have sex with me because she fears she may get pregnant, which is not in her plans right now. She is not on contraceptives because her body reacts to most of them. This issue is driving me crazy and I may cheat on her. What do I do?
MB (mwabumbainns@gmail.com)
My take:
To address this issue we need to get the facts right. One, is she avoiding having sex with you or because she doesn’t want to get pregnant? Two, have you in very clear terms discussed the topic of babies with her? Three, there are many ways people use to avoid pregnancy; have you discussed or shopped around for options? My take (based on your explanation of the issue) is that she may be avoiding intimacy with you just because she just doesn’t want to get intimate with you. If pregnancy was the main problem and she wanted to be intimate with you, she would seek advice on the various family planning methods that may suit her including one of the safest, which are condoms. A clear indication here is that she may not be ready for a relationship with you. Under the circumstances, you either give her time or look for another relationship from which you may get what you are looking for.
{Simon/Taurus}
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