Challenges of the 21st Marriage institution

Am worth the anger am certainly worth some effort. It’s an analogy so far embraced by the very sentimentally mortified souls walking the face of the earth.

An account from the novel The Cottage by Danielle Steel, Cooper Winslow (one of the characters) meets his match in a brave, intelligent, elegant woman by the name Dr. Alexander Madison.

Coop as he is informally known has the charms and wit that always have a way with women.

He sure feels a pinch of the word commitment even when at the age of seventy years, it’s embraced as his forte’.

One would beg to differ as the story unfolds that Dr. Madison is caving in fast enough to give herself the pain of heart because Coop is the kind of guy you’re mother always warned you about.

Let’s look at it from a different perspective. It’s all in the nature of our human existence that satisfaction; either material, emotional or moral is never filled until we find our match.

 We see people preening over miserable and frustrated with their marriage lives, embarrassed to show the truth, why? Because they can’t afford to let go of the very people they deem unique from any others.

We’ve all been up to date with the tales of who beat who, who ran away from who and recent ones being more catastrophic of who murdered who.

That’s the 21st century people, yet in all twists accord, it’s always a happy time painted to the faces of those looking to have something to talk about at their chamas.

We come from different backgrounds, cultures with erroneous beliefs about others.

It’s only when we change these perceptions that the society may have a better thing to do than sit by and watch as the rot takes root.

 We are all human, created and neatly furnished to have the very importance we so ignore to comprehend.

Just as we don’t keep sight to what we do not perceive as important to us, we can as well leave whoever we won’t appreciate and treat well to those who will.

 A society needs love to exist but what is love without respect? Respect yourself, respect your fellow, respect your partner; it’s the least price to pay. It’s as simple as saying, repair the broken mirror, and compliment the solemn image.

 

 

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