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Bishop Kiuna: Having a secret phone password does not mean you are cheating

 Bishop Allan Kiuna of Jubilee Christian Church

Having a secret password is probably not a good thing for married couples, but it does not necessarily mean that those with such passwords are guilty of infidelity, says Bishop Allan Kiuna of Jubilee Christian Church.

“I believe that everything in marriage should be shared and opened up. Secrets are what cause problems in marriages,” he says, adding that, “The issue here is trust. You can have a spouse’s password and phone always available to you, but that does not mean the person is necessarily faithful.”

Bishop Kiuna says that while some spouses don’t mind a phone password, couples should build more on trust. “Instead of focusing on the password, build trust. If a spouse has a problem with how you are using your phone, then it is good to review and talk about it,” he says.

Pastor Angie (Angelah Gatama) of Mavuno Church says there is nothing wrong with having a phone password.She told The Nairobian that it all narrows down to a full disclosure arrangement. “Can I have access to your phone when I need it? If you have a password to hide messages, then at the end of the day, it does not work,” says the pastor.

“Before you get married, you should have full disclosure between yourselves. The issue is whether you can be open to one another,” she says.

“When your spouse asks something, just tell her. That is healthy disclosure and the best way to relate. But if we hide things and are caught, the result is rarely pretty,” she warns.

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