My husband and I been have married for five years and we have two children. We are both 30 years. A few years ago he was involved in a road accident that injured his pelvic area. This injury affected his libido and now he has no sexual urge. He has refused to seek medical help and now I am suffering because we are not intimate. My request that he sees a doctor infuriated him to the point that he moved out of our bedroom and now he sleeps on the couch. It is two years since we were last intimate and I canât take it anymore. I love him so cheating on him is out of question. What can I do to solve this situation? I want to be sensitive about his situation but I also have needs. Please help
{Catherine}
Your take:
Catherine, this is the time your husband needs you the most. Persons with disability often have low self-esteem and it is your responsibility as his wife to help him overcome this. Men thrive in an environment where they are honoured and respected. Try dressing in sexy clothes like lingerie and treat him well.
When he is in a good mood, talk to him and convince him that he can get medical help and athat there are aids that can transform your sex life.
{Andrew Chaplin}
He may be reluctant to seek treatment because of the cost implications. You need to have an open discussion with him and tell him that you wouldnât want anything to come between you and him that is why you want him to see a doctor. Also remember some of the consequences of cheating, like HIV and Aids and other STIs.
{Felix â Oyugisnet}
You have demonstrated a high degree of maturity for the last two years by staying in a marriage that lacks sexual intimacy. Your husband needs medical attention and you need to seek divine intervention for the sake of your marriage. I understand that you have sexual needs but do not be in a rush to stray.
{Kighambo Danson}
