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Men, here are questions you should never ask your woman

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Questions you should never ask your woman

By Brian Okoth (@BrianOkoth2)

Somebody once said that curiosity killed the cat. I don’t think so; curiosity made a man shed tears uncontrollably after he requested for an honest answer about how many men his new lady has slept with before.

You would want to know? He was told, ‘I have lost count of them, but you are the one I am with now.”

Every man would dread such a response.

Nairobian’s Ann Muiruri put together a very interesting piece on why women lie about the number of men they have slept with. For once, I agree – women shouldn’t open up about their sex history whatsoever.

Some things are best left as mystery; here they are:

How many men have you slept with?

Some brothers have this paranormal illusion that they would go out to the downtown club, meet burning hot women and she will end up being as pure as virgin Mary, or having had sex with only one boyfriend whom they hope wasn’t ‘well-endowed’; and that’s it!

This is dumbass thinking! Women get down just as men do; only that they do it with a lot of decorum.

You have slept with Njeri, Akinyi, Chemutai, Nekesa, Halima…, so what gives you the right to ask her how many men she has laid? Did you really think about that before asking her to drop down that small piece of inner clothe for you? Were you psychologically prepared for the reply?

We don’t want more suicides recorded; neither do we want more brothers to go crazy. Don’t ask this question!

Information about her Ex

Keep that loser a mystery or be ready to swallow a lot of things you would not like. He may have been the richest 24-year-old in Africa, a bull dozer in the bedroom, a classic description of Kenya’s David Zepeda, his ‘third member’ down there could be much bigger than yours; all things to make you feel  so inadequate as a man.

It is pretty obvious you are asking your woman to run a comparison check; women are very honest, and at times you would not get the response you desired.

Since the day my ex-girlfriend told me I was succeeding a Senior County Structural Engineer after I coerced her to answering me this particular question, I vowed never again; even at gun point, to make such a stupid inquiry!

 If she slept with her male BFF before

Every woman has that one man in life whom she can never let go of, no matter what! Boyfriends will come and go, but that one man will forever be around.

When you get to know of the existence of such a man in your woman’s life, just assume she did and he is struck in the friend-zone, hoping for round two. That is what you feel about him anyway. What really do you expect to hear if you ask a woman if she slept with her childhood friend, or gay bff? It makes you look like an insecure, immature and cowardly wimp.

If you are uncomfortable with your lady regularly hanging around that ninja, talk it out with her and make how know your displeasure rather than like an idiot insinuating she is bedding him.

Many male love gurus in the dating scene will tell you at one point or another, they raised silly questions like these, and have learned never to go there. The bottom-line is this: if you want to remain happy with your newly found love, do not ask questions that you would not want to hear their responses.

Have it good, brother!

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