For a few months now, my husband has been having a password on his phone. I cannot read his text messages or see his call log and he has refused to share his password. I think he is hiding something from me. If he is not, why is he being so secretive about his phone? I smell a rat and sometimes I feel like banging his phone on the wall. I don’t understand what is going on. {Mildred}
Your take:
Mildred, suspicion is the bedrock of most broken marriages. When trust fails, relationships seldom last. Engage your husband directly and be as open as possible. Show love, care and understanding and win his heart back by doing great things that attracted him to you. Above all, pray because God is the institutor of marriage. He is love and will restore love to your marriage.
{Pastor Allan Kiombe}
A mobile phone is a personal item and it needs to be given the respect it deserves. Your suspicions will kill your morale and depress you for nothing. You may be suspicious of a harmless rat. Why do you want to break your marriage because of a mobile phone?
{Onyango Outha}
Your husband is hiding something and he may be cheating on you. However, you should share with him how you feel about this behaviour and encourage him to open up. Also in so doing, involve a third party, mostly someone he trusts in this discussion. Nonetheless, you may want to review your conduct since it may be contributing to his behaviour.
{Tasma Charles}
Women think that men are always out to cheat. My thinking is that whoever cheats is usually sure whether her partner is also cheating on her or him. How would you feel if you found your man going through your phone? Going through his phone is invading his privacy. If he is a true cheat, then his 40 days will come to an end.?Remain sober in handling this situation?because it can bring your marriage to an end.
{Ouma Ragumo}
Men who put security codes in their phones have more than one partner. It is clear that he is hiding something from you. He may be having an affair. Ask him why he keeps his phone locked yet there is nothing too personal between both of you.
