So you gathered the courage to talk to her but you run into some problems. First, she did not respond like you anticipated, which made the whole thing a bit hazy. Then the words got mixed up and disappeared — they just went somewhere. Nonetheless, she stayed on or rather; she didn’t walk away and leave you looking like a drenched cockerel.
She gave you her number all right but you knew and felt that it didn’t go well, at least not as you had planned. I can let you in on one thing — picking up a girl has never been and will never be easy for any man. Now, getting a number is a good sign but it doesn’t guarantee you anything.
This week, I am working to ensure you don’t mess up anymore and that you stay on top of things.
Got her number? Use it!
Now, there is absolutely no need of having a number that you won’t use. Give her a call but make sure the lead-time is reasonable. Lead-time is the time difference between the moment you got the number and the time you actually call. A short lead-time oozes desperation and a long lead-time can be interpreted as arrogance and have you classified as just another loser. When a lady gives you her number, she expects you will call; now this is where the chase begins. Don’t be too quick to call — you need to keep her guessing to build anticipation. By dinner time, she will be staring at her phone wondering if you are ever going to call. Call her at the magic hour — just before she closes her eyes to sleep.
Let her know that you wanted to catch her just before she slept. Most guys will just call and say good night, but you need to be different — ask for her e-mail! E-mail address? Yes, by their nature, ladies love reading and by asking for her email, it quietly implies that you have something nice to write…for her to read. What does this do? First, it is highly unlikely that any guy has ever asked for her email, most prefer the easy ways — calling or texting.
Second, this will get her in the guessing mode wondering all night and all day the following day what it is you are going to write to her until you send something. She will keep checking her e-mail and guess who she will be thing about all along?
Delay the email as much as reasonably possible but make sure you send. What you are doing by this is creating a pattern — consistency (a magnet for ladies).
Get her to like you:
Most guys do very funny things trying to get a girl to like them. These include buying expensive gifts, costly outings and doing every single thing she asks. True, ladies love diamonds but diamonds are expensive. Apart from buying diamonds, there is one way that will get her eating from the palm of your hands — a secret weapon, a lesson from the dog.